Wedding Belles

One thing that is significant in my life right now, is the fact that I am engaged, something I never thought would happen to me. 

So my hubby to be and I are currently busy planning and wondering what on earth we would like to have. At least one thing we have managed to decide on is the date and place (I shan't mention this as we aren't keen on wedding crashers ;-p ). 

However one thing that gets to me a lot is the fact we only have one income (his) and I am struggling to contribute. I am not a bridezilla and won't be wanting anything too extravagant or beyond our means. It would just be lovely for me to be able to give something to the day, other then just turning up! I have sold a load of my clothes on ebay, however the money seems to disappearing on things for in the here and now, like food shopping. Recently the "wonderful" Atos, stopped my financial support and I am relying on Chris, far more then I really want to. Like I mentioned in a previous post I would love a job and just getting a job seems so simple to many people, yet for example when you are fine one day and then sleep for over 15 hours a day and can hardly function for many days after, then who really wants to employ someone like that?! Anyway, I plan to do all I can to help in anyway possible and just need to remember how lucky I am to have such a wonderful, supportive, caring man in my life. As long as we are husband and wife at the end of the day, then that is all that matters.

Also whilst looking into my own, my best friend is getting married a year earlier. I am her maid of honour, so I need to help plan a wild hen party for her. I don't think strippers are her thing (nor mine), so something to help her relax and enjoy is what is required. It is great fun having a friend to share this with.

All of this and more, just goes to show that I may not have great health, but I do have a great support network around me.